Grey Warden. Spartan. Champion of Kirkwall. Deep-Space Engineer. Slytherin. Firebender.
The easily offended need not apply.
You’re pretty much saying
“Listen I know you have your own life
and I know I don’t know a single thing about you
but I think you should fuck this person for my benefit
because you don’t have a mind of your own and you exist to please me”
I mean that’s just how I see it. Everyone is free to their own interpretations, but I can’t help it when I see it but to physically get uncomfortable. I’m talking stomachaches, my hands shake, it’s not a good feeling.
It’s not like I’m trying to pick on anyone when it legitimately makes me ill.
And to answer your question, it is nothing like trying to hook up two friends. You know your friends. You know them beyond the stage, beyond the music, beyond the movie they were in that one time, and if it doesn’t work and if they have no chemistry I would certainly hope you didn’t push the issue because you actually cared about their feelings.
I’m not trying to come off as aggressive, this is just my perspective and my opinion.